Conversation 1 – Thankfulness
He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord.
-Proverbs 18:22
Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.
-I Thessalonians 5:18
From Couples …
“My husband gives me a sense of security. I love it when he shows me he has been thinking of me.”
“My wife keeps things interesting in our marriage. Our personality differences keep a variety of activities in our marriage.”
Questions for Couple Sharing
- How did you and your spouse meet?
- What are some special stories about your marriage proposal, engagement, wedding plans, and wedding day?
- What couples have been good examples for you of happy marriages? What have you liked about these marriages?
- How have you been blessed by your marriage?
- What are some traits of your mate for which you are thankful?
- What compliments do you give to your spouse?
- How are you different from one another? How do these differences provide strength in your relationship?
A Step Beyond the Mentoring Conversation
Do something each day to express love, appreciation, or gratitude to each other. Notice what you do that seems the most meaningful or gives the most pleasure to your spouse. Give love in the way that your spouse likes to be loved. Different languages of love include: notes, talking, gifts, quality time, acts of kindness or service, words of affirmation, compliments, email, bragging on your spouse to others, playfulness, hugs, kisses, and touch. What are your spouse’s preferences? What are your preferences? Talk about your similarities and differences. From the list above try to guess what your spouse’s top two love languages are.
